You’ve probably heard the saying that opposites attract, and if there’s some truth to it, it’s definitely in the case of masculine and feminine energy – often referred to as yin and yang. There must be a balance in these energies for a harmonious relationship to take place, also called polarity. If you desire a masculine man by your side, we may need to do some work beforehand. Let’s explore how to use feminine energy to attract a masculine man.

Yin and Yang

Originating from ancient Chinese philosophy, Yin and Yang represent the dual forces that are fundamental to the universe.

Yin symbolises the receptive, nurturing, and feminine energy, associated with darkness, passivity, receiving and intuition.

Yang, on the other hand, represents the active, assertive, and masculine energy, linked to brightness, activity, giving, and logic.

This concept emphasises the balance and interdependence of these opposite energies, illustrating that they are not conflicting but complementary.

It signifies the harmony found in the coexistence and interaction of contrasting forces, both in nature and within ourselves, promoting the idea that balance between feminine and masculine energies leads to holistic well-being and understanding in various aspects of life.

Importantly, these energies aren’t related to biological gender or stereotypes at all. There’s no feminine vs masculine energy; there’s rather the way they can work together.

Likewise, as distinct polarities, masculine and feminine energies naturally attract each other. Typically, the most harmonious romantic matches consist of one person with more masculine energy and the other with more feminine energy.

We Attract What We Already Are

Often, we try to attract people we want based on fantasies or ideas we’ve seen elsewhere. ‘I saw it and I want it too!’ These are not genuine needs but rather desires shaped by assumptions about what will make us happy. And we don’t even know if it will, in result, help us achieve that.

Unfortunately, we don’t attract what we want; we attract what we already are.

This is why healing and continuous self-improvement are key. We learn throughout our lives, and the biggest adventure of all is the one with ourselves – self-discovery, a journey that lasts a lifetime. We attract people who are on the same level of healing as we are.

Read more about how to be increase your feminine energy while single.

What is a Masculine Energy Man?

A masculine energy man typically embodies qualities associated with assertiveness, strength, decisiveness, and a proactive approach to life. He is often seen as a provider, protector, and someone who takes the lead in relationships and he loves himself in this role. This concept is rooted in the idea of masculine and feminine energies, emphasising complementary traits that individuals may express, regardless of gender, in the context of relationships and personal dynamics.

It’s someone who comes in and claims a woman he found to be the one. Feminine energy attract a masculine man like that. No wishy-washy behaviour and approach. He has his goals and self-discipline. But he is also kind and supportive and wants to provide for you. This is the type of man we are talking about here.

Create a List of Non-Negotiables

Firstly, reflect on the type of man we would want in your life. Consider creating a list of your non-negotiables, which I encourage you to do on this blog after your breakup.

Read how to create a list of non-negotiables to understand what to take into consideration and how to go about it.

Once you have this list, examine it with a curious eye and ask yourself, without any judgement, just curiosity: who will this man look for? Am I this woman?

For instance, if you expect your new man to be athletic, ask yourself if you’re living an active lifestyle or if you’re a couch potato.

You see, as much as we attract opposites in yin/yang polarities, we also attract what we already are. If you are broke and disorganised, that’s likely the type of person you’ll attract also.

Still dealing with heartbreak or unhealed traumas and attachments, you may attract someone who hasn’t healed himself either.

If you are emotionally unavailable, you’ll probably attract others who are emotionally unavailable as well.

I’m sure you get my point.

Ways to Attract a Masculine Man Using Your Feminine Energy

As always, I encourage you to look at yourself first and try to adjust your attitude instead of expecting others to do the work for you.

I know, it’s annoying that the only thing you can control is your own thoughts and emotions, but believe me – it’s very powerful, and you can significantly improve your life and your chances. Let’s get into the ways how you can use the feminine energy to attract a masculine man.

Tap into Your Feminine Energy

The main and only thing we need to do is to work on our share of creating that polarity with a masculine man, and it’s by increasing our own feminine energy. And really enjoying being in that state. It’s not only liberating to rediscover this side of you after years of coping in this masculine energy world, but it will attract a man who appreciates it.

For them, it’s magnetic, and they crave a glimpse of this feminine world of ours. Read more about ways to increase your feminine energy. I also recommend the podcast by Adrienne Everheart, Feminine Energy Coach.

Learn How to Express Your Feelings and Boundaries

Vulnerability is a huge part of feminine energy, and this is where the world often takes advantage of feminine women. They are so pure, exposed, and it’s easy to overuse this fact, so you need to guard it with your boundaries. We need to protect such women at all costs!

It’s seen as a weakness, but it is the biggest strength to share your feelings without a fear of being rejected – not everybody will react to your boundaries in a nice way. The sooner you find out how people react, the quicker you will know that these red flags are not to be ignored – it’s time to move on.

When expressing your feelings or boundaries, be calm and reserved and use the “I feel” statements and avoid blaming. Say things like “I feel” + “situation” + “boundary”, for example: “I feel uncertain when there’s no contact for days. I am a woman who needs regular contact, otherwise I feel disconnected”. You can follow with “It’s just what I feel” – you’re taking the responsibility and you do not blame him for it.

Build the Life you Desire

As Greta Bereisaite says: “Chase goals, not drama”. In a society where people constantly expect to finally be happy when in a good relationship, we need a frequent reminder that your life should be your own scrumptious cake where a good, loving partner is just a cherry on top.

Stop Oversharing

While it’s amazing to be vulnerable when something’s on your mind, we need to make a distinction between what we need to be communicate and what you should keep to yourself. Nowadays, we share everything with everyone on social media, and no thought it left a secret. I encourage you to lead a bit more private life (it’s not only better for your well-being but also for your safety) and process your emotions in moments of quiet reflection and make sure of what’s going on before you decide to share it with others.

Surrender and Receive

Feminine energy women are wired to receive and appreciate the effort. Not everything has to be reciprocated one to one. Surrender to the moment, just be and be open to receiving from others, whether it’s receiving love, gifts, time, help, flowers or anything else. Express your gratitude for the things you receive.

Find Happiness within Yourself

Reflect on what you want from life and go for it. Don’t wait for someone else to come and give you that. Anything other than that is putting too much pressure on a person to make you happy and build a good life for you. Work on it yourself and attract your perfect match that will just improve what you have.

See the Good in People

Assume people don’t mean harm and give them the benefit of the doubt. The feminine is understanding and giving people time. Patience is an art and you can learn it. Patience is also an act of love, knowing that everyone is dealing with their own emotions and problems and coming to things at their own pace. Be nurturing and warm to a man, communicating calmly your needs and the man will feel like you’re the only woman in the world who really gets him, and he will never let you go.

Learn to Listen

Part of really getting a man is listening to his rants even if you feel that the man is full of it. Sometimes we just need someone to listen to us, not fix us. Don’t be afraid to cut in if the ranting becomes too excessive or keeps repeating itself. Because everyone has their limits, and sometimes enough is enough. But again, be calm and gentle when saying “It’s tough, and I notice this topic keeps coming back and I feel a little overwhelmed while hearing about it so often. What do you think can be done, and how can I help?”.

Let Yourself Be Pursued

The feminine energy woman doesn’t pursue men; she is the one being pursued. All you need to do is to show yourself, give a subtle signal you’re interested and lean back. If the man is interested, he’ll find you. Your inviting energy can’t be missed – men are fairly intuitive, and we don’t give them enough credit in this area. Try not to strategize to get a man because this is doing – masculine trait.
Let a man find you and pursue you. Receive chivalrous behaviour and enjoy it. It’s such a beautiful dynamic, this dance of masculine and feminine. Just relax, enjoy and don’t overthink your next moves – be yourself, be authentic. Receiving that giving masculine energy is such a delight.

Be Playful

Men sit in their heads all day long, everyday. They are single-focused, in the zone and they need a little loving interruption that a feminine woman introduces. Joke, laugh, be spontaneous and just play and have fun. Let the man relax in your presence so that he can get out of his head for a moment. He’ll be thankful for it even if he didn’t realise this is what he needed. But he did; that was exactly what he needed at that moment. It was you – the loving interruption.

Most of All: Just Chill

Fall in love with the idea that these are the last months of your singlehood. What’s good for you is on its way, and you won’t miss it. You can try some manifesting scripting to write down what you feel when you achieve what you want, how your dream life looks like with your dream man. It’ll give you peace of mind and will help you get rid of that desperate energy of wanting things here and now that we get as women so often, pressured by our biology to speed things up. You’ve got this, and everything you desire is on its way!

Conclusion

The journey to using feminine energy to attract a masculine man involves embracing the timeless principles of yin and yang, recognizing the power of polarity, and understanding that genuine attraction is rooted in authenticity. 

The essential first step is self-reflection—aligning your own qualities with the traits you seek in a partner. By tapping into your feminine energy, expressing feelings with vulnerability, and cultivating a life of personal fulfilment, you become a magnetic force that naturally draws in a masculine counterpart.

Furthermore, fostering patience, gratitude, and the art of listening enhances the connection, allowing for a harmonious dance between the energies. Surrendering, receiving, and allowing yourself to be pursued create a beautiful dynamic in the journey of love.

Ultimately, the path to attracting a masculine man is about being true to yourself, finding joy within, and creating a space for love to unfold organically. So, embrace the playfulness of the journey, be authentically you, and let the dance of masculine and feminine energies lead you to a fulfilling and loving connection. And this concludes how to use feminine energy to attract a masculine man

What are your ways to increase and switch into your feminine energy?

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