During the Christmas break, whether you're working or not, it's a time for reflection and setting goals for the next year. All the good and ambitious ideas for your New Year's glow-up should include a couple of thoughts that will improve your mental state. I wholeheartedly implore you to start this journey with self-love and positive self-talk. Let's inspire ourselves with these quotes about self love and worth. ...
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New Year is just around the corner! Christmas and New Year’s is the time we often wish we had someone. It’s magical and cosy, bringing people together and highlighting our solitude when we’re asked “So, is there that special someone in your life?” Ugh. For this reason, it’s a good time to reflect on our desires and create a plan to find a good partner in 2024. Let’s explore the top 8 New Year’s resolutions to find love! ...
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Life will never be simple, with only pleasurable chapters in it. How you respond to problems and life challenges matters a lot. If you approach hardships with the growth mindset, you will see challenges as opportunities to grow further and learn something new. You will build your resilience and grow stronger than ever from every setback. In this post, we explore how to deal with challenges using these tips. Thoughts vs Emotions Our thoughts and feelings are stories we tell ourselves. These stories create a narrative in our minds that we judge as good or bad. And then, emotions appear. Have you ever worried about an event or occurrence that never happened in the end, but you spent days being anxious about these...
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We often look for a partner to finally make us happy. It doesn’t just seem like a bad idea – it truly is one. Putting so much pressure on the other person is so ingrained in society that we don’t question it anymore. However, as a person who once subscribed to this belief and saw it at work, I can affirm that it’s just a waste of our precious time. Let’s explore why self love is important in a relationship. ...
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We, as humans, are wired to connect with each other. Our survival used to depend on it, and our biological programming has not expired yet. Sometimes, relationships fall apart due to excessive codependency, putting too much pressure on the other person. It’s unhealthy. Let’s explore how to stop being codependent and learn ways to avoid codependency to improve our relationships and overall happiness. ...
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We women are emotional beings, and I would argue that it is our superpower. It makes life so fun, and men can’t get enough of this mythical world of ours. But like with all superpowers, if you don’t learn to manage it and you throw it all around uncontrollably, you can do some serious damage to yourself, your surroundings and people in it. I would like to share with you what helped me personally (apart from going to therapy, of course): the best books for emotional control for women. Emotional Education in the Early Years When you were feeling sad as a child, did your parents ever ask you why that is and what emotions you were experiencing? If your answer...
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Each person we meet, every connection we form, leaves an indelible mark, teaching us lessons about love, life, resilience, and the wants of the human heart. Our past relationships, whether sweet or bitter, long-lasting or fleeting, are invaluable chapters in the story of who we are becoming. Let me share the rest of my personal lessons learned from past relationships. Check out Part 1 of the lessons to read my lessons learned from past relationships 1-5. ...
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Yin and Yang, or feminine and masculine energy, is all around. The universe is filled with energy, constantly striving for balance. Within each of us, exists a mix of feminine and masculine energies, both men and women. But what do these energies mean, and how do they differ? And which one should be dominant for me? Let’s explore feminine vs masculine energy and how to increase your feminine energy in this post. Yin and Yang Originating from ancient Chinese philosophy, Yin and Yang represent the dual forces that are fundamental to the universe. Yin symbolises the receptive, nurturing, and feminine energy, associated with darkness, passivity, receiving and intuition. Yang, on the other hand, represents the active, assertive, and masculine energy, linked to brightness, activity,...
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Each person we meet, every connection we form, leaves an indelible mark, teaching us lessons about love, life, resilience, and the wants of the human heart. Our past relationships, whether sweet or bitter, long-lasting or fleeting, are invaluable chapters in the story of who we are becoming. Let me share my personal lessons I learned from my past relationships. Stay tuned for the next week’s 5 more lessons in part 2. The Single Lady Reminders List Right after my last break up, I wrote two lists: a list of non-negotiables in my future partner (including what I don’t want from the lessons I just learned) and a list of reminders for myself for when I’m in a relationship again. To not let myself get...
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In this season of change in nature, we can transform ourselves too. While others are asleep, wrapped up in an autumn wave of drowsiness and Netflix with a cup of cocoa, we are a few steps ahead of everyone else with these best habits to start by 2024! Let’s introduce new routines into our lives this autumn, rather than waiting for the turn of the year! Are you up for a challenge? ? Free Printables For New Routines Free Customisable Morning and Evening Routine printables available! Just like these below with my personal routine - but for you to fill with yours! You'll also get access to Canva templates to personalise and print your routine. Introduce your best habits to start before 2024...
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